Setelah FWB, Tren Berisiko ‘Sleepover Date’ Viral di Medsos! Terbaru

allsocialupdates.com – Currently the term ‘sleeping date’ is flowing on social media timelines. The term refers to the activity of living with a boyfriend. However, the term has drawn criticism from various netizens who consider the term to refer to free sex activities.

The clinical psychologist and pioneer behind Anastasia and Associates’ consulting focus, Anastasia Sari Dewi, emphasizes that the term ‘sleepover date’ is a type of refinement of pre-existing terms such as Teman but Mesra (TTM) or Friends with Benefit (FWB).

“In my opinion, this (sleeping date) has turned into a social phenomenon that is promoted with new terms to clarify the relationship of one person to another more easily,” Sari said when contacted, Wednesday (7/9/2022).

“Perhaps in the past the term couple was just a match or dating, then there was TTM (Friends but Mesra) which was re-formed into FWB (Friends with Benefit), now it has developed again into ‘Sleepover Date’. as if understanding what a relationship is like, but in short words,” he continued.

Furthermore, as he puts it, the rise of the term ‘bed date’ can actually allude to free sex activities. With this term, the impression of vulgarity in free sex behavior can be obscured. He is worried that if the term is used more often, free sex behavior will also be more standardized. However, promiscuous sexual behavior can affect physical to mental.

“For sure, from his own words, people from now on can tell where they are going. But what worries me is that from a psychological perspective, this seems to be an easier term to say. The easier it is to say, standardization seems to be something commonplace, something natural, alright.”

“For things to be risky, it’s pretty awful, to be honest. For risky things, which can harm both physically and intellectually, this should not be standardized,” added Sari.

Sari reminded, physically, free sex can trigger sexually transmitted infections until early pregnancy. At the same time, psychological conditions can also be affected. For example, related to a sense of self-esteem, self-actualization, to social risk.

“Especially if he does it just to pursue direction or there is a tendency to just try it. He had no desire to be left out, to appear slang or anything like that. But he ruled out that the impact could be long haul. This is really the impact of the stay trend. sad date,” he concluded.