Tom Brady made Gisele Bündchen feel “neglected and unloved”: expert

A relationship expert believes that Tom Brady made Gisele Bündchen feel “neglected and unloved” amid rumors that they were headed for divorce.

“Inconsistency can also be confusing and disturbing in a relationship and it could be that Tom is not sure how he feels and what he wants out of life that will make Gisele feel neglected and unloved” – Relationship coach Jo Hemmings The Sun said in a new interview published on Thursday.

Hemmings argued that the estranged couple would also “be doomed” if they did not address their problems urgently.

“The only way around this is proper communication where you can talk openly and honestly about your feelings,” she explained.

“If one or both partners have put their careers first for most of their adult lives, it could be a wake-up call when they find they need and even want to find the time to incorporate family life into this embedded pattern.”

Hemmings noted that, like Brady, many people tend to get more reward from success at work than from personal achievement.

“Or they may be insecure, fearing that without validation and completing the job, they will lose their sense of purpose, or fear that others may assume roles they consider intended for themselves,” she suggested.

“But most of us – research suggests almost 70% – are ‘integrators’ and these people have a hard time finding the right work-life balance, feeling that they are not giving them enough time.”

According to Hemmings, even if 45-year-old Brady and 42-year-old Bündchen are trying to work on their marriage, it may be too late to repair the damage that has already been done.

“Sometimes, unfortunately, it’s just too late, and some compounds break down irretrievably and there is no way to fix them,” she explained. “Tom and Gisele – especially with a young family – would be wise to seek professional help to maximize your chances of saving your marriage, if at all possible.”

Bündchen and Brady’s 13-year marriage shook the NFL star decided to retire from his football career.

In September, we reported that the couple had an “epic” argument over the refusal of a sports champion to throw a towel on his career – despite announcing his retirement in February.

“There was trouble in the marriage because of his decision to retire. Gisele was always the one with the children, ”the informant told us then. “They agreed that he would retire to focus on his family, and then he changed his mind.”

A month later, Page Six only reported that they had both hired divorce attorneys amid their marital misfortunes. Multiple sources also argued that there was a very small chance that the duo would reconcile.

“[Gisele] ends with their marriage ”, a person of the initiated said the People last week. “She’s been upset about it for a long time and it’s still tough, but she feels like she needs to move on. She doesn’t believe her marriage is fixable.

Bündchen also seemed to be casting a shadow on Brady last week by commenting on an Instagram post about “inconsistent” partners. A few days later, Brady fueled rumors of a break-up when he attended Robert Kraft’s surprise wedding without Bündchen.

He was also photographed without his wedding ring as he left his hotel ahead of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers game in Pennsylvania last Sunday.

Bündchen and Brady have 12-year-old Benjamin and 9-year-old daughter Vivian. The athlete also has a 15-year-old son Jack with ex-Bridget Moynahan.